Friday, July 11, 2014

The Team Sudar Epic Road Trip Begins

We woke on Friday, June 13th with the intention of leaving at 7 am. At 8 am we backed out of the driveway and we were on our way!

Photo: Holiday RoOoOoOoooooad! The adventure starts now. #vancation
Team Sudar selfie to capture the beginning of the trip. Keaton is with us he's sitting behind me.
Robert made a cool felt map with a little felt backed Honda Odyssey so that we could show the kids what state we were in. As we crossed into Wyoming I moved the minivan into Wyoming and showed them the map.
Photo: After spending most of the day in windy Wyoming we're now in Idaho. This is the cool map Robert made so we can show the kids where we are. The kids have done awesome! #vancation
Robert's awesome map that helped show the kids where we were as we traveled
Not long after we crossed the border we made our first pit stop. We went to the bathroom then I fed Keaton while Robert started what would become a tradition - he did calisthenics with the kids. He needed to stretch and the kids loved it because they were moving around and getting their wiggles out with their daddy. We turned on a movie for the kids and spent another couple of hours driving through Wyoming and then stopped at a rest stop to eat lunch. Robert had packed us sandwiches and the kids were excited to have a picnic. We stopped again just inside Idaho to go to the bathroom and feed Keaton. And almost 12 hours later we found ourselves at Robert's Uncle Tom & Aunt Jetta's house in Idaho falls. They had a wonderful lasagne dinner waiting for us and then we hit the hay.

Saturday morning we got up and went to check out the local farmer's market. It was a little chilly but we still had a good time walking around and seeing what everybody was selling, we even bought some dog treats to take home to Gus as his 8th birthday was going to occur while we were gone and the kids wanted to get him a present. We stopped at a little Mexican restaurant for lunch and then headed to check out THE Idaho Falls. The kids thought it was so cool to see waterfalls. We went back home for naps, hanging out and another great dinner.
Checking out the falls

Aunt Jetta, Uncle Tom, Emerson & Reese and the Moss Moose

"Mom! Look at this big waterfall!"

Yee Haw!

Duck, Duck, Emerson?

The kids with our amazing hosts
The next day was Father's Day. Aunt Jetta made these awesome belgian waffles with peanut butter and toffee chips, the guys opened cards and the kids gave Robert a CSU polo shirt. We left late morning and headed to Missoula, Montana. We stopped and had another picnic along the way, Emerson "Another picnic? Awesome!" We arrived in Missoula, checked into our hotel room and then headed to dinner. One of our best friends Corrie went to college in Missoula and had recommended MacKenzie River Pizza. The pizza was delicious and it was the perfect place to have Robert's Father's Day feast. And we ordered extra pizza so we could eat the leftovers when we stopped for lunch the next day.

Photo: Happy Father's Day Robert! Thank you for giving me three precious gifts. I love seeing you with Emerson, Reese and Keaton. They're going to have such wonderful memories of their dad. And for being willing to embark on this crazy adventure with me. I love you more than words! #vancation
Happy Father's Day Daddy!
Missoula was so pretty and once we got there we wished that we had more time to explore and enjoy so we'll definitely go back and visit again another time.

The Best Laid Plans

Not long after Robert and I got married we were talking about all the family members we have in the Pacific Northwest and how fun it would be to take a road trip and visit them all. I didn't have much PTO since we had just gone on our honeymoon so we put it off. Then I changed jobs, we had a baby, I changed jobs again, we had another baby, I changed jobs once more and we found ourselves pregnant one final time. We've talked about the trip several times over the last 8 years but the summers were either busy or I didn't have enough vacation time.

Back in January while I was 6 months pregnant I asked Robert "What do you think about doing our Pacific Northwest road trip this summer?" I expected him to say "Are you crazy?" or "I don't think so" or just laugh in my face but yet again my husband surprised me by saying "Yeah, let's do it!" And why not? I was going to be on maternity leave, it's Emerson's last summer before he starts elementary school AND we have a sweet new van. The odds seemed ever in our favor. There was one catch, Baby Rex. We decided we would plan on taking the trip but wouldn't put real plans in place until we met Baby Rex and saw what he was like. Keaton was born and was a sweet and sleepy baby. Once I started feeling better post c-section the trip was on! We called the family we intended to visit and set up the dates.

Next we started planning and prepping. This was admittedly easier to do since I was home on maternity leave and didn't have the distraction of work.

  • Step 1: Getting in the right frame of mind. We talked about how there would probably be some whining, a few fits and testing of our patience but we decided it was worth it. We promised each other that we would be patient and help keep each other calm.
  • Step 2: Logistics. With Reese potty training we knew that we would have to make frequent stops plus we would need to feed Keaton. So we divided up our driving legs into manageable chunks. Robert did an amazing job mapping out our route. 
  • Step 3: Lists. If you know Robert and I well you know that we love lists. We had a list of things we needed to do before we left - house sitter, talk to daycare, mow lawn, etc. A list of things we needed to buy. And I made several packing lists - one for each kid and one for the van - that I would add to over the weeks leading up to our departure.
  • Step 4: Necessities. We also started buying things we'd need for our trip. First things first? TVs and a DVD player for the van. We got the kind that slip over the head rests so we could use them for the trip (and any other long trips) and take them off when we're home. We also bought a waterproof liner/insert for Reese's carseat. IF she had an accident we didn't want her to have to sit in a wet car seat for a number of hours afterward. Side note: Not a single potty accident happened in the van. In preparation we also read some blogs about road trips with toddlers. One tip was to buy lots of $1 items and have a prize bag that you can dig into every so often to give the kids something new to play with or an activity to do. So we started picking up little items here and there to have on hand. 
  • Step 5: Packing. I started pulling things together the week of. Lucky for us Robert's best friend and his wife were visiting us the three days before we left. They were great at playing with the kids and holding Keaton while we packed. Especially the night before we left. 
At midnight the night before we left everything was in the van and ready to go. Robert and I were both really proud of ourselves that we were done that early! We were off to bed. 

Monday, April 26, 2010

Mexico!

So the last year has brought a lot of changes to our house. The arrival of Emerson has changed our relationship a little bit. Gone are the nights where just the two of us hang out and relax together or head out to do something alone. Yes, we do have great friends and family that babysit for us so that we can have date nights but things are different. Now I'm not saying this is all bad - or that we didn't see this coming.

Then the last 6 months have been a whirlwind of activity. Work is crazy, we're taking care of Emerson and the house and working on other projects. Finally in January I told Robert I wanted to go away together. To our special place - Mexico. It's where we went when we got engaged, for our honeymoon, and our last romantic getaway before I got pregnant. I told him this would be the perfect way to celebrate our first year as parents, would help us reconnect with some much needed adult time, help me celebrate reaching my goal of nursing for a year (yes!) and be a great way to relax. It didn't take much convincing to get him to agree.

Now, where to go? We decided we wanted to go to the Riviera Maya again. It's just more tropical feeling than Puerto Vallarta. My friend Megan's mom is a travel agent so we called her and she gave us some options. We could stay where we usually stay which we found out is a 4 apple rating out of 6 on Apple Vacations' criteria scale. She also priced out a few more resorts for us. Then she told us about the 6 Apple Square Deal. With this package you choose your region (in our case, Riviera Maya), pay a fixed price for your air fare, transportation to and from the resort and your all-inclusive resort expenses. But here's the catch, you don't know where you're staying until you check in at the airport and you cannot change your resort. Sounds crazy right? Except you are guaranteed a resort that falls in their 6 apple category - these are their nicest resorts! Our minds were made up when we found out the Square Deal would be $500 cheaper than if we went to our regular place. I guess this way Apple can send people where they need to in order to meet contracts obligations with the resorts. And since Apple owns Dreams and Secrets you tend to be sent to these resorts which we had heard were great. We never do things like this - we're planners as all of you know - so it seemed fun and exciting.

We checked in at the airport on Sunday, April 11th and found out we were staying at the Dreams Puerto Aventuras resort. We met another couple at the airport that had also signed up for the Square Deal and was assigned to the Dreams Puerto Aventuras too. We had a great flight and were transported to the resort. When we got to our room there was a Happy Anniversary banner on the door. Apparently our travel agent had called ahead and this was the angle she played. We had been upgraded to a suite with a private Jacuzzi on our balcony. There were rose petals on the bed and champagne was chilling. The room was beautiful, the bathroom was luxurious and the bed was super comfortable (all the beds we've had in Mexico in the past were like sleeping on boards). The resort isn't as sprawling and opulent as some of the other resorts but it is still very nice. It has a different feel because it's within this little town of Puerto Aventuras. It's right next to a marina, surrounded by condos and within walking distance to some shops. Near the shops we could also watch dolphins and see sea lions. That being said, it was still very nice and cozy. There were six restaurants and we ate at each one. The food was good and we didn't need reservations for dinner.

We spent most of our time lounging by the pool - drinking, reading, drinking, relaxing. Unfortunately it did rain every day around 2 pm and usually didn't stop. This is unusual since their rainy season doesn't start until June but they are supposed to have a really bad hurricane season this year. A tour guide said people are getting nervous because it's so rainy so early. Even with the rain we had a good time. We weren't at work, doing chores around the house or taking care of anybody or anything. We got to have alone time together and catch up on sleep. When it was rainy we would hang out in our Jacuzzi, read or play cards - all while drinking of course.

Wednesday we took a tour to Chichen Itza. It was an all day affair. The tour bus picked us up at about 8 in the morning and we stopped at a couple more resorts to pick up other guests. It was a very nice tour, they provided fruit, juice, coffee and pastries on the trip there. While we rode, our tour guides spoke to us about the region and the cultures. He explained to us that the only people who used to be in this area were locals who would harvest the sap from the local trees to send off to the Wrigley Corporation to make chicle, or gum for those that don't hablo espanol. He also explained to us how there are actually over 40 different regional dialects within the country of Mexico, and he taught us a couple of Mayan phrases. He went on to explain about the transformation of the region towards tourism and how that has helped bring more resources to the region. It was all very interesting. He went on to explain the reality behind the "2012 doomsday" Mayan prophecies. He explained that it is not a dooms day - end of the world kind of deal, but merely a transition from the end of the calendar to the start of the calendar again. He likened it to a really big New Years celebration. He saw it as an opportunity for people to start anew with faith, intellect, love, science, or whatever you might be into. Definitely not the end of the world. Whew. As we approached Chichen Itza (not chicken pizza) we stopped for a few minutes to stretch our legs at a nearby shopping center where you could shop using a credit card if you needed to since most of the vendors at the site were a cash only business. Back onto the bus and only a couple more miles to the site. We spent about 2 hours there, on a guided tour for the first hour and then we had about an hour for unguided portion. It was spectacular. Our guide, Beto, was very knowledgeable and did a great job explaining things to us. We saw the historic ball court where kings would watch a version of futbol/basketball played with such honor and conviction that historians think the captain of the winning team would volunteer to be sacrificed for his great sportsmanship. Cities were won and lost in this ball court. Can you imagine that? Beto went on to explain how precisely all the structures were built. On the solstices and the equinoxes, the sun hits them at certain angles to produce shadows that look like snakes or the sun rises between two specifically built columns. The buildings face the exact cardinal directions and the locations of the other structures around them are not random. The temple of Venus is situated in position to the main pyramid so that when Venus and the earth lined up with the sun in real life, the buildings also lined up with the shadow from the sun. The list goes on and on of all the amazing things the Mayans were able to put into their creations. And they didn't have the luxury of a computer or calculator. We bought a few items and took some more pictures on our unguided part of the tour, then headed back to the bus for a cold cerveza and a nice rest.

Next we headed to an authentic Mayan restaurant for lunch where they danced for us. The food was delicious but the salsa was vary hot, even for Robert. Then it was off to see a cenote. Cenotes are gaping sinkholes that are scattered around the Yucatan Peninsula. For many years, no one could figure out why these caverns in the limestone appeared, or what caused them to collapse in on themselves, or why they all seemed to form a perfect semi-circle shape with each other. Then, not to long ago, it was discovered that a giant meteor had struck the earth very near the peninsula millions of years ago. (Adios Dinosaurs) They realized that these cenotes formed a circle around the main crater and that these were likely formed by smaller meteorites that broke off from the big one as it approached earth. Once they explained that it was 150 meters deep Robert decided he should definitely not swim but take photos instead. I however found inner courage and jumped off the highest point of the stairs - 21 feet above the water's surface. It was awesome and something I will probably never do again. The water was cold and I quickly tired of treading water. Then it was time to head back to the resort.

We had a wonderful time and came back reconnected and recharged. We did miss Emerson but since my mom was taking care of him we knew that he was in good hands and getting spoiled by Grandma! We'll definitely be going back again in two years.

Malob Kin  (That means Good Day in Mayan)

Emerson's Visit to Grandma Monica & Grandpa Mark's House

When we headed to Mexico, Emerson headed to Grandma Monica & Grandpa Mark's house. He had a wonderful visit and was spoiled rotten! They said he did great adjusting and didn't seem upset. The first night he woke up in the middle of the night and seemed confused about where he was. He did great eating table foods for Grandma, something he had been struggling with. They did lots of fun things - took walks, went for a hike, went to the park, had a play date with some friends and played at the house. Mom even took Emerson to her quilting meeting to show him off to the other ladies.
We feel so blessed to have grandparents near by that Emerson can spend time with and make memories. It was so nice to know he was safe and having a blast.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Teresa

A few weeks ago my step mom Teresa found an odd looking mole on her arm. She went to the dermatologist and they found that it was melanoma. She had surgery to have it removed along with some lymph nodes. When the biopsy came back it was found that one of the lymph nodes also had melanoma. She was given a few treatment options but decided on the most agressive.

Today Teresa begins chemotheraphy. This is an extremely agressive chemo that will last for four months. She will have four rounds of treatment each of which are three weeks long. The first week she will be in the hospital where she will be heavily sedated while receiving her treatment. The next week she will be at home but will still be quite ill. Hopefully the third week she'll feel better and then the cycle starts all over again. Between the second and third rounds she will have surgery to have her remaining lymph nodes removed.

By undergoing this intensive treatment we are very hopeful she will remain cancer free. This all came about so quickly, just about three weeks from the time she had the mole looked at until now. We went to see her yesterday as it is unlikely she will be able to see us during the treatment. The biggest risk she faces is the risk of infection and obviously a daycare baby is a petri dish. But we will speak on the phone or Skype when she's feeling up to it. And send lots of emails and photos of E.

Teresa has a wonderful attitude about it all. She has been so courageous and brave the last three weeks. She is a big believer in the power of prayer. So, we ask that you keep her and our family in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Emerson in Images

Emerson with the red wiffle ball Nonie Ger & Papa Ace sent for Valentine's Day
Emerson talking in his room. He LOVES his books.
Daddy reading Emerson's favorite book, Little Blue Truck.
Look at me Mama! (This was my rocker when I was little)
You're right Daddy, this IS Madness! (March Madness Brackets)
Classic Emerson these days. Just walks around carrying things.
A Walsenburg coal miner? No, just E after black beans!
Emerson looking sharp in what should have been his Easter outfit.

Causing a ruckus while Mama tries to get ready for work.
Whoa! Did you know they make balls this big?

Easter

Emerson came down with a stomach bug the Friday before Easter. The poor little dude spent the next two days getting sick and we went through a lot of outfits. So, we weren't able to go to any of the family members houses we had orginally planned to visit. Instead it was a quite Easter here at home. But the Easter bunny still came. He brought Emerson 3 puzzles and some crayons. Emerson walked over to the coffee table where the presents had been left but got sidetracked when he saw one of the eggs. He was a little confused at first because he didn't want to put the eggs in his Easter bag but he quickly caught on. He then spent the next week carrying around the plastic eggs. Oh the simple pleasures when you're one....

Here's one Daddy!
I found a ton of eggs!

Emerson's First Birthday Party

We had Emerson's birthday party here at our house the Saturday after his actual birthday. There wasn't really a theme, just bright fun colors. Although we did get two dozen balloons which were Emerson's favorite part. We got lucky and they lasted a week! We tried to keep it small with just immediate family and a few friends. Everyone arrived and we had some snacks and chatted. Then E opened his presents but he needed my help because he was a little overwhelmed by all of the activity. Finally we got to the main event - the cake! Emerson had his very own cupcake from Happy Cakes, chocolate with chocolate frosting. He was a little hesitant at first but ended up eating the entire thing!

It was a wonderful day and we are so lucky to have so many family members and friends that are a part of Emerson's life. Thank you all for your generosity and love.

I LOVE Balloons
The Family
Why's everybody singing?
Oooh, chocolate is yummy!
Almost done Mama
I ordered a special t-shirt for Emerson to wear at his party. It arrived an hour after everybody left. So we took pictures of him in it the next day at the park.
Just two guys at the park

Emerson's First Birthday

The morning of Emerson's birthday we woke up to a ton of snow. Robert & Emerson were even lucky enough to get a snow day! We found the birthday boy smiling in  his crib and then went downstairs to take a few photos before I had to head off to work. Emerson had waffles with butter and jam for his breakfast and spent the rest of the day playing with Daddy and Gussy.
Emerson & Daddy
Emerson & Mama
Emerson playing in the sunshine with his new football

One Year Old

Emerson Joseph is one year old! Woo Hoo! Here are the things Emerson can do a year later:

  • Walk! Emerson started walking a week before his first birthday. Now he walks pretty much nonstop.

  • Enjoys brushing his teeth.

  • Likes to turn light switches on and off.

  • Knows some of his routines and the order things happen. Especially when it comes to bedtime.

  • Eats a lot of table foods. Has trouble with the texture of real fruits and vegetables.

  • Loves any form of a potato.

  • Feeds himself by hand and is starting to like to hold a spoon.

  • Loves to drink out of an open mouth cup but is getting better with a sippy cup.

  • Has started drinking cows milk and seems to like it.

  • Emerson is getting his 9th tooth.

  • Sleeps through the night 98% of the time.

  • Loves music and likes to dance.

  • Continues to be pals with Gus. He likes to pet him and give him hugs. He also tries to "share" Gus' bed and toys.

  • Is obsessed with dogs! He points them out when they're on things he sees while we're shopping.

  • Can now say: Dada, Mama, Dog, Gus, Ball and This.

  • Is babbling more and more.

  • Can recognize things and some people and point them out when asked.

  • Gives kisses when you ask him to.

  • Knows when he's being funny, can be quite the little ham when he knows you are laughing at him.

  • Likes to put his clothes in the hamper.

  • Will point to things he wants or where he wants you to take him.
We can't believe what a difference a year makes. Our little man is so big!
 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker